Prove It: Five Questions That Expose True Customer Focus
Most companies claim to be customer-centric. It’s in mission statements, investor presentations, and marketing campaigns. But declaring customer centricity and actually practicing it are entirely different things.
This principle sits at the foundation of my strategy outlined in Customer Transformation, a framework built on turning customer obsession from a slogan into an operating system.
After decades of working with companies and advising organizations on customer experience transformation, I’ve learned that you can quickly diagnose an organization’s true commitment to customers by asking five specific questions. These aren’t about what leaders, presentations, or websites say; they’re about what organizations do daily.
Question 1: What Trade-Offs Are You Willing to Make?
This is the most revealing question of all. Anyone can prioritize customers when it’s convenient or profitable. The real test comes when serving customers conflicts with short-term financial goals.
Ask yourself:
- Have we delayed a product launch to fix a customer experience issue?
- Have we sacrificed quarterly revenue targets to build long-term trust?
- Do we invest in fixing systemic problems even when temporary workarounds are cheaper?
The harsh reality: Most organizations optimize for quarterly earnings, stock price, and market share while talking about customers. When push comes to shove, the spreadsheet wins.
Genuinely customer-centric organizations make decisions with a multi-year view of customer relationships. They understand that Customer Lifetime Value (CLV) matters more than this quarter’s sales numbers. They’ll absorb short-term costs to strengthen long-term relationships because they recognize that sustainable growth comes from the depth of the relationship.
If you can’t point to specific instances where you chose the customer over immediate profit, you’re not customer-centric. You’re customer-aware.
Question 2: Do Your Actions Match Your Philosophy?
Actions speak louder than words, but words matter too, especially when you’re speaking publicly about your customers.
Here’s a simple diagnostic that reveals organizational priorities: Read your company’s last press release about a customer issue, service disruption, or product problem. What comes first, acknowledging the customer impact or defending the company’s position?
I’ve analyzed thousands of corporate statements issued to resolve customer issues. Less than 10% start by acknowledging the customer first. Instead, they lead with explanations, justifications, technical details, or, worse, legal disclaimers. The message is clear: protecting the company’s reputation matters more than addressing customer impact.
When your press release states “To our vendors, to our stakeholders, to our employees, and finally, to our customers,” you’re customer last. When a lengthy CEO interview appears in the NY Times, and the word “customer” only appears one time in the text, you don’t care about them.
Compare these approaches:
CEO-First: “”Our recent system upgrade was a major milestone for the company. I’m proud of our team’s dedication and the successful completion of this complex project. While a few users may have experienced brief interruptions, this upgrade positions us for stronger growth and innovation ahead.”
Company-First: “Our system upgrade was completed as planned, strengthening our platform’s performance and reliability. During the maintenance window, some users may have experienced brief service interruptions while updates were deployed. Our teams executed the process efficiently, ensuring the system was fully restored on schedule and aligned with our operational objectives.”
Customer-First: “We know how frustrating it is when your work comes to a halt because our tools let you down. Yesterday’s upgrade caused service disruptions, and we take full responsibility. You deserve better reliability, so we’re sharing exactly what happened, how we fixed it, and the steps we’re taking to ensure it never happens again.”
The difference reflects where your organization’s instincts lie when under pressure.
Beyond public communications, behavioral alignment shows up in how leaders spend their time:
- When was the last time your executive team spent meaningful time with actual customers? Not reviewing dashboards about customers, but sitting with them, listening to them, understanding their struggles?
- Do leaders regularly engage with frontline teams who interact with customers?
- When customers complain, do you dismiss it as noise or investigate it as a signal?
I’ve lost count of how many C-suite executives claim to be customer-obsessed yet haven’t had a direct customer conversation in months or years. They review NPS scores and churn metrics, but they’ve insulated themselves from the messy, complicated reality of customer experience.
Some organizations take this seriously. I’ve worked with leaders who spend time in support queues, sit in on sales calls, and visit customer sites not for photo ops but for genuine learning. When the CEO models this behavior, it cascades through the organization.
The gap between what you profess and what you practice is the measure of your authenticity. And customers can feel that gap, even when you think you’re hiding it.
Question 3: What Does Your Culture Actually Reward?
Your culture isn’t defined by your values poster in the lobby. It’s characterized by which behaviors are rewarded and which are punished.
Look at your incentive structures:
- Are salespeople rewarded for closing deals or for finding the right fit?
- Are support teams measured on call resolution speed or customer satisfaction?
- Do product managers advance by shipping features or by solving customer problems?
But here’s where most organizations miss the mark: they only ask these questions about customer-facing roles.
The real test of customer-centric culture is what you ask people who never interact with customers directly.
During your hiring process, do you ask software engineers how they believe their role impacts customers? Do you determine whether a financial analyst sees any correlation between their work and customer outcomes? Does your operations team understand how their efficiency decisions affect customer experience?
Suppose these roles are hired and managed without ever connecting their work to customer value. In that case, you’ve created a two-tier organization: a small group responsible for customers, and everyone else accountable for… what, exactly? Internal metrics? Process compliance?
Customer-centric cultures require fundamental shifts in how organizations operate:
From profit-first to people-first: Profit becomes the outcome of serving customers well. This is recognizing that sustainable businesses are built on value creation, and people.
From silos to collaboration: When marketing, product, sales, and support operate in separate worlds with separate goals, the customer experience fragments. Customer-centric organizations break down these walls and create shared accountability across all of your people, for customer outcomes.
From employee compliance to employee empowerment: Your frontline teams interact with customers daily. If rigid processes constrain them and prevent them from solving customer problems without escalating through three approval layers, your culture isn’t customer-centric.
From role-based to impact-based thinking: Every role, from the data center technician to the procurement specialist, impacts customers somehow. Customer-centric cultures make those connections explicit and meaningful.
Culture flows from leadership. If your executives model customer-focused behavior, empower teams to make customer-first decisions, and celebrate those who take risks to better serve customers, you’re building the right culture. If they do the opposite, no amount of mission statement wordsmithing will help.
Question 4: Is Your Organization Truly Aligned Around the Customer?
Organizational alignment is about more than everyone agreeing that customers matter. It’s about having systems, processes, and decision-making frameworks that consistently prioritize customer needs across the entire organization.
Ask these diagnostic questions:
- Do different departments share a common understanding of customer needs, or does each function have its own interpretation?
- When you launch new initiatives, is there a clear framework for evaluating them through a customer lens?
- Does customer data flow freely across the organization, or is it hoarded in departmental silos?
One powerful tool for establishing this alignment is Customer Value Alignment (CVA), a framework for determining what genuine alignment looks like in practice. CVA helps organizations map how every function, process, and decision either creates or destroys customer value.

The best organizations I’ve worked with implement simple but powerful alignment mechanisms. For example, one company requires every major decision to pass through four questions in this exact sequence:
- Is it suitable for the customer
- Does it align with our purpose?
- Can we deliver it well?
- Can we make money from it?
Notice the order. The customer question comes first, not second or third. And profitability comes last in the decision hierarchy.
This isn’t how most companies operate. In today’s corporate world and politics, too many people make selfish decisions driven by ego or personal agendas rather than asking, “Is this what our customers want?” They prioritize what makes them look good, what protects their department’s budget, what advances their career, and it costs them. Companies lose customers, market share, and ultimately their competitive position because individual actors optimize for their own interests rather than for customer value.
Here’s the hard truth about alignment that most organizations resist: If your organization isn’t aligned with customer needs, you don’t force customers to conform to your scale, you adjust your business to meet the customer’s needs.
This goes directly back to Question 1: What are you willing to sacrifice?
Most organizations build systems, processes, and structures that make sense internally, then expect customers to adapt.
- “Our billing system works this way.”
- “Our support hours are these times.”
- “Our product is designed for this use case.”
When customers struggle or complain, the response is often to educate them on how to work within existing constraints rather than questioning whether those constraints serve customers.
Customer-aligned organizations do the opposite. They observe how customers actually want to engage, then rebuild their operations around those patterns, even when it’s expensive, complicated, or requires abandoning significant prior investments.
This is where CVA becomes critical. It forces you to assess honestly: Are we aligned around what customers value, or around what’s convenient for us? And when misalignment exists, are we willing to change ourselves rather than demanding customers change for us?
Question 5: Does Technology Serve Customers or Efficiency?
This question is particularly critical as organizations rush to implement AI and automation. Technology should amplify your ability to serve customers. “You must be able to connect every technology decision you make back to one or more specific, documentable customer value propositions. Always.”
The diagnosis here is subtle but essential:
- Are you implementing technology because it solves a real customer problem or because competitors are doing it?
- Does your technology strategy lead with customer needs and follow with technical solutions, or vice versa?
- When you automate interactions, do you maintain channels for human connection when customers need it?
I see too many organizations implementing AI chatbots, automated systems, and digital experiences that optimize for operational efficiency while degrading customer experience. They reduce support costs by making it nearly impossible to reach a human. They implement “personalization” that feels creepy rather than helpful. They automate processes without understanding whether automation serves customer needs. They want AI, only for the sake of having AI.

Customer First. Technology Last.
Customer-centric technology strategy recognizes a fundamental truth: As technology becomes more prevalent, human connection becomes more valuable. The goal is to use technology to free humans to focus on complex, emotional, high-value interactions while handling routine transactions efficiently.
This means:
- Building systems that are seamless and accurate for transactional interactions
- Preserving and enhancing human touchpoints for emotional and complex situations
- Using data and AI to understand customers better
- Measuring technology success by customer outcomes
The question is whether your technology adoption process starts with customer needs or only a desire to use new technologies.
Think of it this way: customer first, technology last. Technology is the enabler. If you can’t articulate the customer problem you’re solving before selecting the technical solution, you’re building technology for technology’s sake.
The Real Test: Consistency Over Time
Here’s what separates genuinely customer-centric organizations from those engaged in performance art: consistency.
You can optimize for customers when times are good. The real test comes when you’re under pressure, when competitors are winning, when investors are demanding results, when the easy path is to cut corners on customer experience to meet quarterly targets.
Customer-centric organizations maintain their commitment even when it’s inconvenient. They understand that trust takes years to build and moments to destroy. They recognize that customers remember how you treat them when things go wrong far more than when everything’s working.
The Role of Aspirational Intelligence
Sustained customer centricity requires more than empathy or data, it demands aspirational intelligence. Aspirational intelligence is the ability to identify and act upon collective aspirations in ways that drive strategic decision-making and innovative thinking. It blends emotional insight with forward-focused strategy, helping organizations align what they say they value with what they consistently do.
When companies harness aspirational intelligence, they move beyond transactions to transformation. They understand not only what customers need today, but what they hope for tomorrow. That awareness turns loyalty into advocacy and vision into action.
Moving Beyond Empty Promises
If these five questions make you uncomfortable, that’s actually good news. It means you’re being honest about the gap between your aspirations and your reality.
The path to genuine customer centricity isn’t about better marketing or more customer success managers. It’s about fundamentally rewiring how your organization makes decisions, allocates resources, measures success, and defines what winning means.
It requires trade-offs that hurt in the short term. It demands behavioral changes from leadership. It necessitates cultural transformation that extends to every role in the organization. It forces you to adapt your business to customers rather than expecting customers to adapt to you.
But here’s what I’ve learned across 30+ years working with companies on this journey: Organizations that commit to genuine customer centricity build sustainable competitive advantages that are nearly impossible to replicate.
Because while anyone can copy your product or match your price, nobody can easily replicate an entire organization that consistently, authentically prioritizes customer relationships over short-term optimization, and over the personal agendas that too often drive corporate decision-making.
The question isn’t whether customer centricity matters. The question is whether you’re willing to make the hard choices that prove it.
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Chris Hood is an AI strategist and author of the #1 Amazon Best Seller “Infailible” and “Customer Transformation,” and has been recognized as one of the Top 40 Global Gurus for Customer Experience.